Your Woman Wants You to be the Man You Are Afraid to Be

As you think, so you are. As you are, so you act. As you act, so you attract. adapted from Ralph Waldo Emerson Last night, as my wife was coming to bed, she took off her work shirt and bra and began putting on a jammy top.  In the brief period of time she wasContinue reading “Your Woman Wants You to be the Man You Are Afraid to Be”

My Wife Told Me I Could Buy a New Grill

I was having a non-work conversation with a co-worker last week.  We kicked around some BBQ talk and discussed the intricacies of dry rub, then he said it – “My wife said I could buy a new grill.” I smirked and squirmed and winced and coughed and then I said “I’m sorry” as if IContinue reading “My Wife Told Me I Could Buy a New Grill”

Happy Wife, Happy Life??

“Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking.” Markus Aurelius Antoninus Yesterday, I was talking with a couple of male co-workers.  You know, water cooler talk.  We weren’t talking about anything earth shattering since I am willing to dump an entire pot of hotContinue reading “Happy Wife, Happy Life??”

Your Mind is Lying to You

“A strong person cannot help a weak person unless they want to be helped; even then, the weak person must work to become stronger. By your own efforts, you must develop in yourself the qualities you admire in others.“ James Allen Recently, I was helping out a woman friend with a household project.  While weContinue reading “Your Mind is Lying to You”

Men Should be Emotional is a 21st Century Lie

We live in a generation of emotionally weak people. Everything has to be watered down, including the truth. Unknown Toxic masculinity. That is a very divisive term. It’s seems like our world has decided that these two words are mutually inclusive and for some reason very few push back against it. Why does masculinity offendContinue reading “Men Should be Emotional is a 21st Century Lie”